
I went to the doctor’s to have my first sonogram and discovered I was a week further along than I thought. I used the calculators provided online and to my surprise discovered their inaccuracy. Apparently, the day you would have started your period is actually week 4 of a woman’s pregnancy! I was quite shocked to learn that and to think most women don’t even know they are pregnant until well into their second month. However, the MOST AMAZING thing happened during the sonogram, the doctor discovered the baby’s heart was beating very strongly! It was so awe inspiring to know that my body can create a life that has a heart beat in as little as 6 weeks, as I could see the little flickering on the monitor. WOW! Patrick later said it was the most amazing thing he had ever seen.
I have been very concerned about miscarriage, so I asked the doctor what are my chances statistically and she said, “Once the baby’s heart is beating, you have less than a 1% chance of miscarriage.” You have no idea how good that made me feel. Nevertheless, I am not out of the danger zone yet, she said that 12 weeks is considered the highest risk for miscarriage, so just four more weeks, and I should pretty much be in the “safe zone” as I am dubbing it. In addition, all the while, Patrick was there supporting me and even gave the baby a nickname, Walnut. He said that is what the baby looked like and actually think it’s a really cute name.
Five to Eight weeks is considered a woman’s second month of pregnancy, so in just three weeks I will already be three months! It seems to be going by so fast. As you can see from my picture, I am showing a little bit in the lower abdomen area. I can still wear all of my clothing, but there are some shirts that I am opting not to wear. I will also be picking up a couple of larger bras as my current ones don’t seem to fit as well as they used to.
I think I am experiencing every pregnancy symptom in the book. I started to get the morning sickness this past Sunday and it pretty much lasts all day long, so I am not quite sure why they call it “Morning” sickness, when in fact it should be called, “Every Day, All Day Sickness”. I read that this is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, so while I hate feeling like this, I know it’s for the best and it’s a reassuring sign that the baby is OK. The extreme fatigue has continued. I feel like I could pretty much sleep all day if I allowed myself to, but at least I have been getting an average of 9-10 hours of sleep a night. I don’t know how women do it with other younger children, and tip my hat to them! I have gotten some moodiness, but instead of being a Super $^#@&, I have instead been unusually happy, beaming if you will. I am really just so happy about this baby.
As soon as I can figure out how to put the sonogram picture on here, I will. The computer is not cooperating with me very well. To all my friends and family, thank you for your support! I will better about updating more regularly; it’s just been such a hectic couple of weeks!